This book compares attitudes toward life, life goals, and motivation from the perspectives of “Givers” and “Takers,” ultimately asking readers what kind of life constitutes a successful one. “Givers” are those who give with the goal of influencing others and bringing about change, while “Takers” are those who give and take in order to achieve their own interests and goals. This is not simply a matter of the symmetrical concepts of “givers” and “takers,” but rather a “difference in how one lives life” depending on where one positions oneself.
Just like Handong University’s motto, “Learn to Give to Others,” the role of a “Giver” is to learn and then share what they’ve learned to help others. People who show kindness to those around them, offer mentoring, or even share items on Karrot Market—all of them fall into the category of “givers.” In fact, the explanation that these givers tend to be more successful, healthier, and happier truly warmed my heart. It felt as though I was witnessing God’s principle at work—that a life of generous giving is filled with even greater blessings.
Through numerous corporate examples and anecdotes, the author illustrates the differences between “Givers” and “Takers,” while also offering an intriguing exploration of the role of the “Matcher” (or “Connector”). The book is filled with simple yet powerful evidence showing that applying the “Giver” principle to sales leads to top performance, favorable salary negotiations, and more opportunities. This is a theme also found in the book *The Unique Merchant* and aligns with the message of *The Classics Have the Answers*. Furthermore, this principle is connected to “The Secret of Tithing,” revealing that God blesses those who give more abundantly. Givers work harder to give more, and it seems God grants them greater ability in return.
Just as the phrase “Happiness Delivery”—which has become my life’s motto since my days as a delivery driver—suggests, I live each day diligently to deliver happiness. I write a little bit every day on my blog to awaken my brothers and sisters who are still in darkness, and since both my company work and my personal delivery business are B2B ventures, I do my utmost to help my client companies succeed. This is because their success and survival are directly linked to my own success and survival.
Above all, I believe that following the example of Jesus—who gave His life to save all humanity—is the model that “givers” should emulate most. I have realized that sharing my life and finances, and offering my time to God through intercessory prayer, is my greatest source of fulfillment and happiness. Coincidentally, I had the opportunity to visit an international book fair, where author Yoo Si-min and former President Moon Jae-in were engaged in a humanities-focused discussion, drawing a large crowd. While historical assessments of them remain divided, to my eyes, they appeared to be living the lives of “takers” rather than “givers”—or rather, they seemed to be depriving ordinary citizens of their rights while enjoying only the privileges of the elite left. I prayed earnestly that the country would soon return to normal, so that South Korea could become a nation where more “givers” are actively engaged and successful.
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